Saturday, November 21, 2015

"If I had been there I would have..."

About ten years ago I visited the national holocaust museum in Washington D.C. With me where "Annette" a lady I affectionately call my jewish mama, and her daughter who is a dear friend.
I wanted to visit this museum with them, because I had seen Annette's family photo. The one with about 20 people in it, most of whom had died in the Holocaust. Annette's grandmother had been burned in the village square. Her crime - worshiping God in a different way than her neighbours.

As we toured the Holocaust museum I was overwhelmed by the horrors I was confronted with. The abuse, the torture, the refusal of North America to accept a ship full of jewish children. A part of me protested "this can't be real, how could people do such things to each other." The word "Natzi" took on a whole new level of meaning for me.  However, the hardest thing for me to process, was how so many people could have stood by and let it happen. How they had lived with this atrocity and ignored it as if it wasn't their problem. How they had judged the jewish people as "probably evil, because they were different. I remember thinking... "If I was there, I would have done something. I would have hidden the jews, I would have helped them. I would be different than the rest of the people who let that happen." 

Fast forward ten years, and here we are. Another group of people, who worship God differently than we do, crying for help, asking to be let in to our countries. Now it's not NATZI'S its ISSIS.
What will be our reaction? Indifference? Fear? Judgement? "They are probably evil because they are different?"

I hope not. 25,000 refugees will come to Canada in the next two months. 2000 of them will come to my city. Should they be carefully screened? Of course. Speak up to the government and call upon them to do that.
However, the bigger question is not about the government. Looking back on the past, we can see that the bigger question is... How will you and I respond? The new refugees in our city will need clothes, household furnishings, warm coats, and most of all they will need love and acceptance. I encourage you to consider the ways that you can offer that. There are centres in each city that accept donations. Beyond that, you can help by supporting groups like " The liberation of Christian and Jewish Children" who are taking risks to pull children out of the hands of ISSIS, one at a time.  http://www.liberationiraq.com

There is one image from the Holocaust museum that continues to be a symbol for me of indifference. It is the piles of shoes found in the concentration camps that belonged to the many who died there.






I believe that each generation will face it's own test of complacency in the face of evil. I truly pray we pass ours.

Friday, June 12, 2015

Is Busy a Disease?


What I am learning from my journey towards simplicity...

There is an article floating around Facebook that says that we have the disease of being too busy. It’s a good article, and yes, many of us do feel “too busy”, but I do think it’s a deeper issue than too busy.

First- the illusion, that people in the past had more free time. 
What past are we talking about? 

In the pre-industrial world, (as it is now in many third world countries,) the struggle for food and shelter involved back breaking labour, water hauling, animal tending and a standard of living that would look like primitive camping to us. After a day of this, people fell into bed when the sun went down, and got up the next day, and the next, and the next and did it all again. Exhausting, repetitive- slaves to eking out an existence. They had one change of clothes, maybe two if they were lucky. Free time? 
No...but yes!  When you weren’t exhausted, there was face time, real face to face time, relational time. So actually, less free time, but without the temptations we face today, it was perhaps more free time. 


Now fast forward a 
few hundred years. 
We expect clean water, gourmet food, beautiful shelter and we have got them. We expect to not have to work physically hard if we don’t want to, and we have got that. We actually have more leisure time than any generation before us.
The problem is... we have more complex temptations that the pre-industrialized world did not face. We create business through identity needs, piling up involvements as achievements. We turn to electronic entertainment to distract and sooth us. We have bigger homes to clean, furnish and show off, more than one car to pay for, and closets of clothes to wash, iron and care for. X4, or X5, or X6 if you have children. Exhausting, yes.  Busy yes. Distracting yes. Draining most certainly. 

Yet it doesn’t have to be this way...

How do I know this? I took my time back. I stopped watching TV! 
Permanently. No reality shows, no cable bill... more free time. I limit my computer time ...more free time. I don’t play online games...more free time. We sold our huge home, which makes for less bills, less cleaning washing and ironing. ... more free time. Purged my closet... more free time... Unsubscribed and blocked every non essential email... more free time.
AND...
This allows me to give my time to the things that have the most meaning for me. Face to face things, relational things, adventure things, Kingdom things.

You see, finding free time its not about escaping hard work. Hard work is meaningful when it’s building something you love. In fact, am one of the hardest workers I know. It’s about breaking up with the time suckers you have given yourself to. Letting go of the empty promises of materialism to meet identity needs, and getting rid of the clutter that you have to clean, polish and move from place to place. It’s about managing your personal freedom in ways that reflect your core values. 

I recently read a book about a post apocalypse America… there was no war, terrorists simply fried the electronics. People had to return to a 1800’s lifestyle of planting crops, hauling water, tending animals, and going to bed when the sun went down.  No appliances, electronics, closets of clothes, and no malls selling stuff. And guess what? They were happier… they had more relational time. 

The moral of the story… 
Do you want more free time? Want better relationships? Pull the plug, and manage your personal freedom. Purge, downsize, get rid of “stuff". Unsubscribe from emails, games and cable TV. Turn off Netflix, own less, and give more.  

You will be happier!

I've done it, and it’s true!

Saturday, April 11, 2015

Lady Wendolyn's online moving sale.

Here is my online moving sale. I am selling a few pieces of furniture and some mirrors.
Everything has been priced reasonably, and so I am not taking offers. The price is the price and if you don't want it, someone else will. Everything is first come first serve, and will need to be paid for at the time of pick-up. If you would like to view an item you can come to our house. Items that people have said they want will be marked conditionally sold until picked up.
I will accept cash, or if you would like to pay with pay-pal, master card or visa, I can accept that with a 3% additional charge for the fees. Happy shopping. Email me at ladywendolyn@mac.com or message me on Facebook if you want to buy something. We will be having a yard sale on May 23rd,  to sell of the many, many small things that I have from my mega house.



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3 Pice Leather sofa, chair and storage
automan. No marks or rips in the leather.
Excellent condition.  I am sure the sofa is
100% genuine leather as I bought it. Not as certain on the chair as we bought it at a sale and it wasn't marked.
$500.00

SOLD

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 Tv stand with drawer $100.00
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 Countertop hot plate cooker $25.00



SOLD









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Black office chair. I don't know what it's made of, but it's like new.  $40.00

 SOLD
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Very shiny white IKEA desk with Black legs.
New condition $35.00
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Wooden bed with pull out storage drawer, or trundle section underneath. Has a high end deluxe mattress.  There is a metal bar along the side thats on the wall that was added to stabilize the frame, but it doesn't show.  $300.00

This is the bar on the wall side of the bed. 


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 Serta deluxe twin mattresses and box springs. New condition. These sell for close to $1000. Used for a couple of months in our student residence, and covered with a sealed mattress protector since new.  $250.00 each


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Leather stool $35.00
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SOLD

Dining room set with Glass table, carved base, and six chairs.
I will also throw in two custom tablecloths that fit the shape.
Excellent condition..  Chairs are cream with a swirl brocade upholstery. $600.00

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Antique dining room buffet 4 drawers and 2 cabinets.     $250.00                       SOLD 
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 Set of brown velvet lamps with beaded trim.
Look great on a buffet. $40.00




 Very old vintage piano mirror. Beautiful
carved detail on the top $60.00
SOLD

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Pewter coloured mirror with gorgeous details.
about 24x24 $40.00

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 Framed french print.. $10.00
SOLD
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Very old wicker porch table. $50.00











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 20x30 picture of victorian woman, gold frame with glass. $ 25.00
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Very old,  Large antique Armoire, with 4 drawers, one long cabinet,
and one square. $400.00
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Beautiful cabinet/armoire for bathroom. Holds towels, etc. Frosted glass doors at the top.
About 6.5 ft tall $125.00

SOLD